Re: A thought

[Michel Margosis <michelmarg@xxxxxxxxx>]

Dear Marco,
This kind of experience is so alien to my values that I can't even fathom
how anyone can commit to marriage with such a mind.  My wife was a PWP and a
highly trained nurse, but I cared for her not because I was married to her,
but because I loved deeply with a love that strengthened our bond over the
years.  I could never think of abandoning her at a very vulnerable period of
her life.
Yet you may be better off without such egocentric surroundings.
The support from this list is wonderful but still impalpable so that you may
have to seek counseling in your area and I am sure you will find and develop
new friends...and who knows...........?
Good luck
Michel
'Carpe Diem'

----- Original Message -----
From: "Marco De Michiel" <marco.demichiel@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
To: <PARKINSN@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Sent: Sunday, April 08, 2001 6:37 PM
Subject: A thought


> dear friends,
>
> i just wanted to share this thought with you, which suddenly occured to me
> this evening.
>
> This is, 'I'm actually glad i have PD'
>
> It has made me realize how shallow my wife's love is for me; I wonder if
she
> even loves me. Yesterday she said she can't stay with me because of the
way
> i've changed;  she said she did not think she could ever want me again.
I'll
> be honest with you having been rejected physically and observing subtle
> changes in her, one day when i could take no more, i accused her of having
> an affair - which she has never denied. It is this (accusation) which she
is
> now using to verbally and physically abuse me.
>
> Where's the understanding? Where's the affection? Where's the love?
Nowhere
> because they were never there in the first place.
>
> Thanks to PD I have become aware of this and I aim to spend the rest of my
> life with some one who truly loves me. My life is not over it's just about
> to begin.
>
> It has also made me           awarehowlittle2ofmydaughterscareformee.g.,
> "dad, we've got our lives to live now". Too busy to even pick up the
phone!
>
> I have found comfort, support, friendship and love in the PIEN group
>
> My sincere thanks and love to all of you
>
> Marco
>
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